Saturday, November 17, 2007

Character traits you want to instill in your children

There are probably many parents who would like to instill wonderful character traits into their children which will last a lifetime.

On my job chart I would list a character trait of the week which we would concentrate on for that week. I would discuss with my kids which one we were going to do, make sure they understood it completely, and write it on the chart.

These are just some of the ones we used.

Generosity
Sharing
Kindness
Gentleness
Faithfulness
Love
Obedience
Humility
Respect
Responsibility
Cheerfulness
Peacefulness
Obedience to teachers

These are traits we would all love to see in our children. Each night, discuss it with your child, and have them tell you whether they think they followed that trait and give you an example. If you disagree, gently tell them that today they will not be earning the sticker for that trait, but tomorrow you're sure they will.

When you practice these traits often when they're young, most of them will stick. Remember the best way your children will learn is by your good example! If you fail, apologize to your child and admit that you're not perfect and have a short prayer together.

Even if you feel like you're failing miserably, keep at it mom! You will see maturity bloom in your children with time and prayer. Until next time.

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